{"id":17771,"date":"2019-09-09T15:38:47","date_gmt":"2019-09-09T19:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/?p=17771"},"modified":"2022-06-22T11:03:56","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T15:03:56","slug":"front-row-new-york-fashion-week","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/fashion\/front-row-new-york-fashion-week\/","title":{"rendered":"Sitting Front Row at Fashion Week Wasn\u2019t the Glamorous Dream I Imagined"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Though theCURVYcon<\/a> has become a plus-size haven during Fashion Week, members of our community are still heading to the official NYFW shows to see the latest collections from major designers. So, we were curious about how welcome (or not) people of size felt on the sides of the runways. We reached out to journalist Gianluca Russo<\/a> to find out about his experience in the front row.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Since the day I started writing, I dreamed about attending New York Fashion Week. It felt like every fashionista\u2019s ultimate goal: to not only attend a runway show, but to sit front row while having your picture taken and imagine you\u2019re in a deleted scene from \u201cThe Devil Wears Prada.\u201d But as a fat person working in fashion, that dream was almost crushed by the reality of this sizeist<\/a> industry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the summer of 2018, I attended New York Fashion Week for the first time. I\u2019d been writing about fashion for only a few months at that point, but after going on a Twitter rant about the lack of plus-size men visible at NYFW, an editor at NYLON reached out and asked if I would cover the topic that season. Dreaming of that day for over a decade, I instantly said yes and was on my way to my first Fashion Week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

High fashion was founded in hierarchy\u2014it was founded by rich white elites for other rich white elites, and since the dawn of time, gatekeepers have been trying to prevent anyone outside of that group in\u2014and that certainly reigns true at Fashion Week. Front row is reserved for the icons<\/a>, celebrities, influencers<\/a>, and powerful editors who the brand wants to be photographed. Second and third row fall to those with lesser power, and even more so for those who are given standing-room tickets. Knowing that this outdated system is the way fashion still operates, I expected myself to be placed in the back of the room, standing to watch the show. To my surprise\u2014and terror, to be honest\u2014I was sitting front row.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

High fashion was founded in hierarchy\u2014and that certainly reigns true at Fashion Week.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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In theory, sitting front row is a dream come true. In actuality, it can be a nightmare. Before even attending the show, I was filled with anxiety at the thought of being body-shamed\u2014while directly or just from judgy looks. It\u2019s no shocker that the fashion industry is rooted<\/a> in fatphobia and a strong hatred for plus-size people, so to attend a major runway show and claim space there\u2014figuratively and literally\u2014is much more difficult than it appears. At the same time, it\u2019s the perfect opportunity to take a stand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Walking to my seat that summer day, I had a choice to make: cower, silence myself, and try to squeeze in, or embrace the confidence I desperately needed, remind myself that I deserved to be there, and make everyone around me know that yes, I\u2019m fat, and I\u2019m proud of it. I chose to do the latter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To my shock, my plan worked: I sat in my seat, chatted briefly with the people next to me, enjoyed the show and left, all without the experience of being shamed. Unfortunately, that experience was singular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the year since then, I\u2019ve attended over 20 more fashion shows. All but four have featured solely straight-size models. At about half of those shows, I\u2019ve sat front row, often to the surprise of many PR agents who assisted me in finding my seat. I\u2019ve been asked to show my ticket again and again to prove I actually had a front-row seat. I\u2019ve been asked to get up so the thin person next to me could take a photo without me in it. I\u2019ve been ignored, glanced at, and judged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Last season, a PR agent for a straight-size brand attempted to give my seat away to a high-up fashion editor while I was standing right there. With the courage I didn\u2019t even know I had, I made her move. I was not invited back to that show this season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I had a choice to make: silence myself and try to squeeze in or make everyone around me know that yes, I\u2019m fat, and I\u2019m proud of it. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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That experience was very formative for me. As much as I report on the need for body inclusivity in fashion<\/a>, these elite high fashion brands at NYFW are not catching on. So what else can we do? The answer was easy: boycott.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While interviewing plus-size model Hunter McGrady ahead of this season\u2019s Fashion Week, she informed me that she would not be walking in shows or attending events that were not truly inclusive. I decided to do the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not a fashion reporter. I am a fat fashion reporter, and I cover plus-size fashion. So why do I need to attend shows where designers don\u2019t care about me or my community<\/a>? Simply put, I don\u2019t. So after speaking with Hunter, I, too, decided to say \u201cThank u, next,\u201d to shows that were not inclusive. It\u2019s been the best decision I\u2019ve ever made.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This season, I\u2019ve attended inclusive shows and events like Chromat<\/a>, 11 Honore, and theCURVYcon<\/a> that not only represent my community but make me feel welcome, at home, and loved. Finally, after a year of sitting front row in places I didn\u2019t belong, I can breathe freely knowing that the person next to me doesn\u2019t mind if our thighs touch, if we\u2019re pressed up against each other, or if I get a little too excited when Tess Holliday walks down the runway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It may be impossible to escape the fatphobia entrenched within fashion: Not everyone at these inclusive events is fat, after all, and as a reporter, there are times when I\u2019ll still be put in uncomfortable situations. But in moments like those, it\u2019s vital to remember that I know precisely where to find spaces that accept and celebrate me, as well as places that uplift other fat voices and experiences. When we each find those spaces, not only can we be our true selves, but we can revel in the fact that we know the future of fashion is FAT with a capital F, and no one can stop that day from coming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Want more stories from the plus-size fashion community? Bookmark the \u201cMeet\u201d<\/a> category!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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