{"id":20734,"date":"2021-03-24T12:31:59","date_gmt":"2021-03-24T16:31:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/?p=20734"},"modified":"2022-06-22T09:47:02","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T13:47:02","slug":"fat-girl-vacation-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/love\/fat-girl-vacation-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Daydreaming Of When I Can Have a Vacation Fling Again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember early in the pandemic a meme went around \u201ccheck on your friends who used to have multiple locations in their IG bios.\u201d I am that friend. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of traveling, I\u2019ve spent the past year having many solo dance parties, investing in disco balls, and pining after celebrities (this isn\u2019t new for me). Did you know Henry Cavill\u2019s thighs were so muscular they would rip his pants while filming <em>The Witcher?<\/em> Anyway, I miss traveling because traveling is also how I date. The first date I ever went on happened while studying abroad in Madagascar. When and my fat ass broke his scooter, he was in love! That trip ended with a make-out session with a volleyball player for Mauritius\u2019 national team. Being fat was seen as an attractive quality, a first for me, in Madagascar, and ever since then, most of my flings and random make-outs have happened in other cities or countries. After all, fat girl sex can happen anywhere and the freedom of being on vacation always gives me a confidence boost.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a<a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/know\/what-is-plus-size-glossary\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong> plus-size woman<\/strong><\/a>, it feels extra fun to travel, date, have sex and do whatever I want because those are all things we are supposed to be ashamed to do at our size. It really is that main character lifestyle! If you are like me lusting to travel here are my tips to date and travel at the same time because you are sexy and deserve some vacation love. You are Stella and this is how you get your groove back after a year of binging TV and eating bags of shredded cheese. After all, fat girl sex can happen anywhere and the freedom of being on vacation always gives me a confidence boost.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Your traveler charm can go extra far in countries where being fat is valued so watch out for marriage proposals.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><b>1. Be Prepared To Travel While Fat So You Can Be Confident &amp; Comfortable- <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Traveling while fat requires prep, especially if you travel abroad. Being comfortable on your trip will be the first key to dating so that you\u2019re able to enjoy yourself instead of treating your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/live\/our-top-9-chub-rub-prevention-products\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">chub rub blister<\/a>. These things are always part of my checklist for traveling&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Chafing cream or stick <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 I always bring extra plus some shorts for activities\u2014for the chafing cream might not be enough.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Extra underwear \u2013<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Trust me.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/live\/flying-while-fat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>Seat belt <\/b><\/a><b>extender \u2013<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You can ask any airline for one for free or carry your own with you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Outfits that make you feel HOT \u2013<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> But are appropriate within the city or country\u2019s cultural context. When I first started traveling I prioritized practicality vs. outfits I actually liked and felt cute in. Mistake. Depending on where you visit, you might be the first plus-size person they see dressed boldly and that can have a fun effect.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>A towel \u2013<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Because we\u2019ve all been in a hotel having to use a \u201ctowel\u201d that covers \u2153 of our body.<\/span><\/li><li aria-level=\"2\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/shop.dia.com\/collections\/swimsuits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A great plus-size swimsuit<\/a> \u2013 <\/strong>Vacation is just more fun when you feel good in your swimsuit.<\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"2\"><b>Research \u2013<\/b> Because some activities have weight limits and or if you\u2019re traveling with people who are more mobile than you, it\u2019s great to have planned backup activities. Oh also, if you\u2019re planning on using public transportation, look that up before.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ok now that that\u2019s out of the way\u2014the fun stuff! <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-pin-url=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/love\/fat-girl-vacation-sex\/?tp_image_id=20737\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/gutenberg-blog-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_2264_400x520.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20737\"\/><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/shop.dia.com\/products\/malibu-one-piece-cilantro-green\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shop the Malibu One-Piece on dia.com now.<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><b>2. Use That Traveler Charm<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Whether you\u2019re on a road trip three hours away or another country, local people will be enamored with you. I think this can be especially true if you are a plus-size person living your life to the fullest. If people in Texas and France can find my Midwestern accent alluring then anything is possible. Your traveler charm can go extra far in countries where <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/meet\/marie-southard-ospina-embraced-the-word-fat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">being fat<\/a> is valued so watch out for marriage proposals. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>3. Do Things That Are Fun To You<\/b> \u2013 Okay, maybe this one seems obvious, but do things that bring you joy. This might be a hike, sitting in a cafe, a guided tour, local museums, etc. When you\u2019re doing things you enjoy people will see you living your best life and be HOT for it. On a solo trip to Oahu, I made three new friends on a sunrise hike and ended up spending the day with them. On another trip, my friend and I were working in a cafe and a man came up to her and was like, \u201cyou are really beautiful, I hope you don\u2019t mind that I drew you.\u201d They dated for the remainder of the trip!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>My pro tip is to pay for the premium version of the [dating] app a few weeks before your trip.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-pin-url=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/love\/fat-girl-vacation-sex\/?tp_image_id=20740\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/gutenberg-blog-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/IMG_2090_400x520.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20740\"\/><figcaption><a href=\"https:\/\/shop.dia.com\/products\/amalfi-one-piece-barberry-pink\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shop the Amalfi One-Piece on dia.com now.<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><b>4. Use Dating Apps <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 Yes, most of us do not like them, but they are great for traveling when you know you want to go on some dates or have a fling. My pro tip is to pay for the premium version of the app a few weeks before your trip so you can swipe in that city or cities and line up some potential dates before you get there. Do not give these strangers too much info though unless your dad is Liam Neeson in Taken and even then, does not seem worth it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>5. Leverage Your Local Network<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 If you know people where you\u2019re going tell them you\u2019re interested in meeting someone. If you don\u2019t know anyone then consider staying at a fun hostel or hotel. Or maybe go to an adults-only resort?? Hubba hubba!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most importantly take care of yourself. If you\u2019ve horned yourself up over days or weeks of trying to get a travel fling going to no avail then take yourself on a date and then go back and vibe out\u2014yea thats what I mean. Although, I do not advise this strategy in a shared hostel room. Taking care of yourself also includes being safe if you do end up on a date or having a fling. Have fun and be the main character.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped columns-3 wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/travel\/top-5-must-see-beach-destinations\/attachment\/nassau-bahamas_2400x1524\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-pin-url=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/love\/fat-girl-vacation-sex\/?tp_image_id=20662\" data-id=\"20662\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/gutenberg-blog-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Nassau-Bahamas_2400x1524.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20662\"\/><\/a><figcaption><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Top 5 Must-See Beach Destinations<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">As curated by Taylor Long, founder and CEO of Nomads Swimwear<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/wear\/plus-size-swimsuit-coverups\/attachment\/andie_shot_05_0471_2400x1524\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" data-pin-url=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/blog\/love\/fat-girl-vacation-sex\/?tp_image_id=20698\" data-id=\"20698\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dia.com\/gutenberg-blog-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Andie_Shot_05_0471_2400x1524.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20698\"\/><\/a><figcaption><p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Three Ways To Level Up Your Summer Style With Plus-Size Swimsuit CoverUps<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Give a whole new sense of purpose to your swimsuit with these chic and easy coverup styles.<\/p>\n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting back to that main character lifestyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[185],"class_list":["post-20734","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>I&#039;m Daydreaming Of When I Can Have a Vacation Fling Again - Dia &amp; Co<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Ever dreamed of finding romance in a foreign city? 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